On Feb. 27, I served as the guest speaker at the 9th Annual Young Authors Project sponsored by the Friends of the Fox River Grove Memorial Library in Fox River Grove, IL. It’s a fabulous program that encourages children to write. There are no “losers” here–Everyone who participates receives an award and goodie bag. It was an honor to speak to these bright-eyed children about my experiences as a writer.
Borrowing an idea from Stephen King’s On Writing memoir, I focused my speech on the Writer’s Toolbox. Talent is only one skill a writer needs to succeed, I said, and I asked the children to come up front and pick something out of my toolbox. (A real toolbox on loan from my 3-year-old son, who made me promise to bring it back). Several parents approached me after my talk to say they too found value in my speech. These attributes are applicable to any profession:
Passion: You must love what you do. If you want to succeed as a writer, you must love to write. You must love the words, the page. You must lose track of time. It feels like a minute, when it’s been only an hour.
Dedication: You may not have much time to write each day, expecially if it’s still your hobby. But you must dedicate time to the craft. You can’t call yourself a writer if you don’t write.
Trust: The one person you must trust is yourself. The words and ideas may not always flow, but trust that you will always find a way to get them from mind to page.
Patience: Good writing takes time. It cannot be rushed. Every time I sat down to write my novel, I thought “I’ll never be done with this.” But one day, I was able to write ‘The End”. Writing should be part of your day, like eating or sleeping. You don’t eat dinner and think “Great, now I’m done with eating”. You eat everyday, and write every day, to sustain yourself.
Support: You must fall back on the support of not only your family and friends, but writing communities. I am a member of two writing groups because I need other writers to cheer me on and set me in the right direction through critiques. Writing does not have to be a lonely profession.
Humility: You are not the best thing to happen to writing, and you can always improve your craft. You should be proud of your work, but never so much so that you cannot accept criticism or find ways to expand your skills. Keep reading books about writing, attend conferences. Look at your writing with a keen, skeptical eye.
Finally, I showed the children the book I’m currently reading, “Water for Elephants” by Sara Gruen. “Good writers are good readers,” I told them. If you want to succeed at writing, keep reading.